I remember I packs 4 bags too .. one labour bag which had oils, burner, music a change of clothes for both of us a few snacks and bubs "first outfit and wrap"and my camera and other stuff. One for my hossy stay which had all my crap in it. One for hubby which had all his stuff and of course baby's bag. In the end we didn't need all of it and at the time we only took the labour bag and DH brought all the other stuff in later. Its better to have too much than not enough but I would suggest only worrying about the "labour" bag the other stuff can come in later.

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