Keeping your DH & DP happy in the bedroom!

[Kitty33]

Very good idea with the pillows to support you for rear entry...... (he he he)
I used 5 pillows!! It was good for support...... and while we are talking about it when u r DTD with your pillows underneath... it helped that I gave myself a bit of a tickle while we were DTD from behind....
OMG i cant beleive I am typing this!! HE HE HE....
I found it helped sooo much to relax the muscles on the inside and made it very very very much more enjoyable for me

Good luck honey
xox

[AnyDream]

hehehe @ title!

Well, I had SPD and my hot tip is to keep him happy Very Infrequently...that way when he gets it it's so mind-blowingly good that it outweighs the fact it's not very often LOL.

Not a solution for everyone, but really ladies, we're talking about weeks and months of his life, not an eternity!

[lismith25]

I agree go the rear option, I have found being on my back is just too painful. Dh is actually being really good about it, he knows that I am not in the mood and I think hormonally it is making him not in the mood either. Thank God ...its hard enough getting out of bed to go the loo every 30mins never mind dtd

[~kaos~]

Naked cuddles and help him help himself.... along with all the other suggestions

[Jas]

Hi,

Well this is a little personal but I found a chinese position can't remember if it was in a pregnancy book or if it was on one of those foxtel birth shows but DH and I found it really great during pregnancy. I'll so my best to explain it. so woman lies on her back and puts her legs up bent (imagine you are sitting on a chair except horizontal) so say you head in at the head of the bed and your feet are down the end then DH or DP lays on his side facing you across the bed and you rest your calves on him and well I'm sure you can figure out the rest!!

Feel free to pm me or ask for clarification if that doesn't make sense!! We found it really great because I was...lets say in the mood quite a bit and we were still active up until the day I went into hospital to be induced and it was great not too exerting for a tired preg lady but your tum doesn't get squished

[frankie]

hey guys,

Thanks for the tip jas, Funnily enough my dp was checking th email and read your reply and laughed cos we already do that position. Ha Ha Ha. Its really cute he said " hey your friends replied to your post and they suggested that thing that we do". very funny. Its kinda cute when he gets involved cos he checks my posts and reads them and pretends he doesnt find it interesting when he really does. hehe

I also wanted to mention that im in so much pain that i cant enjoy anything sexually, my clitoris hurts, my breasts,the inside of my hoo haa. Its all way too painful, so i try to give him oral as often as i can. Being in this much pain is it normal symptoms for SPD?

[Cricket]

I don't think the pain you're mentioning is because of SPD specifically, but more just being a little more tender due to the extra blood flow in those areas in pregnancy. Maybe try going very slowly, (explain the issues to your DH, although if he's reading this thread, then I guess he already knows! Hi Mr. Frankie! ) communicating clearly about what is good and what is not good,and use something as a lubricant? And have him stay away from the boobs if they are very sore.
HTH!