oh hun totally understand the panic your going through. The obsessive checking of the toilet paper is something I've done for weeks convinced I missed a sign with my DS of prem term birth. The discharge you speak of sounds normal to me, well from what I have read in the What to expect when your expecting, but it cant hurt to call the midwives, it might put your mind at ease.

in terms of the when did Cookie move last, it might help for you to keep a rough record, just a piece of paper with the time you felt the movement. It helped me heaps when I got to late at night and couldnt remember how many through the day, but when I checked the paper could it see it was plenty. I only started that recently after a bit of scare, it really helped me keep my sanity.

glad your all home, safe and sound, and I hope your little one keeps cooking for a while yet.