Well as my DH couldn't been there for baby number 3 I had my mum fly up to be there for me and I too thought that I would feel really uncomfy but in the end it was about me giving birth and not her. She was really great didnt really do much just let the midwife do what she need to do. But she has said now that it was the best experance for her even though she said she felt helpless as she new the pain I was in but new that there was nothing she could do. I'm am so glad now that I let her come in.