I agree with all the others. Everything they have said. I put on over 20kg, ended up at 100kg and felt terrible with my first pg! I lost 28kg after the birth (boy was that hard!) and this time I have only put on 10kg, which I am happier with. Having said that I have given in to some very bad binge eating eating habits - the other night I ate a whole 230g packet of Doritos in bed (after dinner)!!!!!!! I hardly think "a whole mars bar" classifies as some sort of evil binge eating event and wouldn't even worry about it. Did your DH have a bad day at work or something? Have you guys sorted it out? I sure hope so. Don't let it damage your self esteem - you are YOU, not your weight, or your eating habits or anything else! Pregnancy is a stressful enough time without worrying about it. You can lose any weight you put on after the birth anyway - so go with the flow! :hugs: