I asked an ob about it after a while & he baisically looked at me as if I was stupid & said 'you are older now!'
I was in agony & thats all he could say.

I saw a gp later on about it - about 2 weeks before I had him & sh explained it a bit better, but didn't really help. Just said to take it easy & take panadol.
I'm on a waiting list to see the physio here publicly. I could have seen her privately, but couldn't afford it & have been waiting about 6 - 8 weeks.
If you can get into the physio you might be able to get a brace. It might help.
I don't really know what else to suggest. Maybe just try getting your DH to cook tea for you or do something everyday so you can rest for a while.
Don't worry my DH never did, but I had pre natal depression from my pain.