Oh I remember that moment!!! LOL!!!

I do know that there are different levels of epidural strengths that can be given. I think there are 4 levels - I had the 3rd highest level so could feel not much at all!! But still managed to push my DD out (eventually ) I think the lower levels allow you to feel enough to do the job but not be in immense pain at the same time.......I'm sure there will be someone around here somewhere who could give you the correct info on that!!

What helped me was the doctor saying that I had to use the muscles as though I was (TMI warning....) doing a poo And once he said that, I was able to focus better on what it was I was supposed to be doing

Have a chat with your dr/ob or midwife about it though because they will be able to help you get fully informed about epidurals and other pain management.

HTH