I"m with the Dr on this one sorry. You really don't need to be induced or anything to help the cervix along because it sounds like your body is doing a pretty good job on it's own getting things ready And you are really still quite early. The fact is that you weren't in labour and unless your waters break or there is no medical reason (and unfortunately being over it isn't a valid reason ) then they will not induce you at 35 weeks and rightly so! You still have 2 more weeks to get to 'term' and I think the biggest issue you may have is psychological - you gave birth previously at around this gestation so you are having trouble finding the right headspace to deal with a term pg because it sounds like this baby might be staying put for a while yet.

Now I know you are ranting and probably not specifically asking for advice, but it is really doing you no good to get this worked up over it - many women have prelabour that is a real PITA to deal with when it starts this early, but sometimes it's just what we have to put up with kwim? I've been there done that 4 times before and I know how frustrating it is, I really do but until you can get yourself in the right frame of mind then you wont be able to unhinder yourself mentally and go into labour.