Hey Jordie

I loved your question I actually get asked this alot in my antenatal classes

the cervix is firm like the end of your nose (I'm following you around Marydean )
but not so firm that your Dh could be feeling or hitting it

the baby will not be so low in your pelvis, for it to be felt by DH...but again it depends which position you where in

no harm will be done to you or the baby of course...but remember that the prostaglandins in semen can help ripen the cervix...when the body is ready for labor that is

xx yogababy