Interesting that she'd tell you not to have accupuncture... did she give you a reason?
Massage can help with oedema. There are massage therapists who specialise in lymphatic drainage, however even your DH can possibly give you a little relief with some massage.
He will need to use light, stroking movements - pressing too hard will not be good for you (and will be uncomfortable anyway). The stroking movements should be made in the direction towards your heart (i.e. if he is working on your legs, he needs to stroke upwards towards your torso; if he's working on your arms, upwards towards your shoulders.)