Yep - Sorry Caro and Soul - I did mean Soul! (Gee - I must be pregnant!)

BTW everyone - especially you Danni m'dear - when I complained that I was having trouble walking due to the pubic and pelvic joint bone pain at 16 weeks to my obstetrician - the b@stard gave me a huge grin and said "that's fantastic news!" I thought - what a horrible man - he's got sadistic tendencies. But no - he went on to explain that when you have these relaxin type pains - it bodes very very well for a good delivery because everything's loosening up nice and early. He went on to say "just wait until you are 28 weeks - you'll hardly be able to walk!". But it's not that much worse now that it was at 16weeks in reality.