That's great to hear, that's how it should work. Nothing can replace the pivotal role of the father and sensitive support from a birth attendant can really boost his confidence and encourage his involvement.
At a recent birth, which unfolded very quickly, both the midwife and I stepped back at the moment of birth so that the Dad could be the first to touch the baby - he passed her straight to mum - it was just wonderful. That Dad was floating for days afterwards.
The idea of doula support is to enhance the experience for mother, father and baby - and support the family's bonding.
I do understand tho that some couples prefer not to have anyone extra at their birth -some couples choose unassisted birth for this reason. It's every couple's own personal decision.





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