Is it too early to get the Gel?

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Its not like they cant make me do it any earlier can they?

Hell no!!!
You can refuse anything you don't want!!

Keep in mind though that if they have said that is what they want to do they will probably try and talk to you into it anyway, so stand your ground and tell them your reasons why you are refusing. Ask them if they have a good medical reason to want to induce?? And just being overdue by a few days isn't a good reason.
Good Luck!!