Congrayulations on the arrival of Cameron. You picked a really good day to have him as it is also our wedding anniversary.

Does your Ds have a sleep during the day. If so, use that time for yourself. Put bubs into his bed, pram or wherever he will settle well and go have a shower and relax under it.

Get your Dh to bath the kids or even DS2 when he gets home while you are getting tea. Yes, he is tired after work but he is coming home to a different kind of work where as SAHMs have the same work day in day out. He is also tired of trains doing their own thing and wondering how he can pay for everything that comes his way. Most men don't talk about these things, we jsut have to be patient and blow off steam every now & then.

Just remember, it does improve. You will get into a sort of routine and readapt to the next situation.

The house will stop looking like a bomb has gone off and soon you will be complaining you are running them here, there and everywhere after school.

Also when you have his sons there get them involve with helping with C. You might be surprised how helpful they will be given the right encourgament. Boys this age can be all bluff when it comes to babies but deep down love them and love to help.

Do you have family nearby to call on? If so do, even if it's just to look after them while you go grocery shopping.