Honey that's a lot to take in isn't it? I think you are incredible. You are dealing with so much. Take it a step at a time. I understand how daunting it feels to know that once she is born it will be action stations. Just know you can do this. That you have us all here from all over Australia (& the world!) barracking for her and you.
I am so glad you have a supportive and loving partner.