you have certainly had a terrible time of it, I hope things get better from here on in.

I could not possibly comment on whether or not your baby would be better born at 37 weeks. In general babies born earlier struggle more, but I do not known the ins and outs of your medical history and how this would affect your baby. However it is very important that if you are unhappy about the advice you have been given you seek a 2nd opinion, a 3rd if you need to. You need to be able to trust your care provider in order to feel confident you are making the right choices, and your doctor bringing up the sad loss of Ruby which was not related to your BP seems cruel and unnecessary. If only for that, I would be tempted to change doctors and start afresh with someone who does not resort to emotional blackmail to get his own way.

Trav
xx