sometimes the way we write things can be misconstrued because there is no intonation...which i'm sure is the case here.
Yes, this is very true. Hopefully we're all on the same page now (and I've managed to back myself out of my comments, LOL!)

the issue for me was more health related... is it really a bad thing to get waxed? i know some ppl hate the look, the feel, others love it.. for me a brazilian is just about easy maintenance..but i'm not really that fussed about not getting it done if it is a bit of a health hazard or is going to impede healing of any tears etc.
I honestly wouldn't have thought that it would be a health issue being waxed but maybe Bath is right, due to the increased likelihood of ingrown hairs. Might be best to double check with a beautician to be sure. My beautician has several pregnant clients at the moment and hasn't mentioned it being an issue and I did discuss it with my OB a while back too and his words were 'do what you like down there' so he wasn't concerned at all. Ingrown hairs can be nasty and do get infected so if you're prone to them maybe a trim with the scissors would be a safer option. I'm not really sure though