Yes forgot to mention that just cause I am home I am still looking after a 3 year old , cooking cleaning , washing , all tht fun stuf but Iv had to just cut back and leave some things until another day or until DF comes home as Iv ended up in hospital that concerned with the cramping pain which turned out was all fm my pelvis ..
As hard as it is to step back a bit when you are used to being able to do the things you normally do , you really need to step back and take it easy , remember you are growing a little life in that belly and it can take a lot out of you

Have you considered the possibility that you may not be able to work up until as long as you thought ?