I have the same issues - I carry all out in front from very early on and so people always tell me how big I am, am I sure it isn't twins etc.....

The other day someone I work with commented that I am 'huuuuuuuuuuuuge'. She said that all through my last pregnancy too, so you'd think this time she would just think it was normal for me, wouldn't you?

But I always measure spot on for my dates, and my last baby came out as 3.6kgs - above average, but not massive. I think it is funny, I have no issues with how I carry, I love my belly and I love being pregnant. My Ob tries to reassure me everytime that it is all measuring normally and that all it is is my organs and bowels all being rearranged to accommodate the growing baby, plus fluid and a bit of bloating. I don't need the reassurance, but I think he must see alot of people that get told they are too big/small and so it has become part of his routine to reassure that all is well.

All you need to care about is the measurements that the M/W is giving you. If she tells you you are too big/small then you have something to deal with. Otherwise just try to remove yourself from the conversations of gossips with nothing better to do with their time!