Saw OB today and Bub is still not engaging i'm getting so big and uncomfortable.
I've been getting pains down low and up my vajutz, the baby hurts me when it moves sometimes.
Has some one got some advice cause i'm loosing it i'm getting really tired and emotional. All amidst renovating our unit so stressful. Please help.
What i forgot to mention is that my ob said c-section may be needed. I really, really, really don't want one. I have my heart set on a natrual birth.
just thought ild let you know but none of my babies ever engaged ontill i was in established labour and waters had gone not even my first baby engaged Ive had one c section for fetal distress not size related at all my second was a vbac he was 10.2 pounds so about 4.6 kg i think huge Im only little 4ft 10 I have had the pain your describing now on my last baby and this one and my third labour was a dream 2 hrs 15 minutes love a repeat of that compared to my first two wasnt even time for an epidural LOL so I hope to avoid one this time as well as i felt so much better after the baby was born when I didnt have one

dont be talked in to any thing you dont want you might be like me have a nice cushion of water keeping the head up but doesnt mean baby cant come out ask your self how you feel about having the baby I knew my second son was way bigger but I remember thinking I can still do it and I did and he was huge chances are baby is thinking about making thier presence know and thinking about coming ask your doc for a sweep may be to help things along plus if you are doing a lot with your unit that will add to your tiredness and pain hope your feeling better now though