Thanks everyone! Its beginning to make a bit more sense now... and I am planning on going in prepared when Aidyn starts kindy and prep.
Not sure about the kindy as he may have to do it at his ABC centre if I am still at uni, and I dont know if the workers for the kindy there are qualified to give their opinions on his development/readiness for prep? I guess I will have to rely on the teachers at Prep, and be prepared to go through the assessment etc if I really think he isnt ready. He will be 4 when he starts prep, and 5 when he starts grade one... I just hope he will be ok, but honestly things might be fine, as a lot can happen in 2 years with his development etc!