there is alot to consider and you know what is best for you and your family. As far as school goes, she could be a whole year younger then some children in the class. THis makes a huge difference especially around 9 when there are some big emotional changes. Personally I would send her when she is the eldest not the youngest. She may be 'ready' now, but schooling happens for 12 years and she may not be able to keep up as the years go by. I have seen this with my DD1 who is now 11, there is a BIG difference with the younger girls. And if it affects them socially they can start struggling in other areas too.


I think something is probably niggling at you to keep her home, perhaps your instinct is, I would not call that your wants and needs. She will be ok with staying home another year once it happens. x