update:
i met with the principle today.
he had a meeting and it is still he said she said with the children and the biting incident.

most of the meeting he watched my childrens behaviour (they were walking around, fighting, DD even climbed on the principles chair at his computer_ while we talking.
He kept asking how i am ,

am i coping?
are the children like this all the time
why dont they understand the rights and wrongs in authority
do i have any help
do they fight
do they listen

etc

i felt like i was being physcho analysed.


insert suckful parent here! i hear you principle! i suck as a parent but hey! i am trying the best i can with what i have!