Hello! I'm 90% thinking he is going the year after. I agree with everything you have said. There is no harm in having them home for another year. Hopefully I will have a bubba then too and they can have some time together before he goes to school. This is what was bothering me to be honest. I thought he would have a better time at school instead of being home with a newborn. But I have to think of the long term affects instead.