Thanks trill. Makes sense that kids with disability's would sit out. This could be the case here & the person who told me didn't realise.
But yeah we don't seem to get much in the way of useful feedback & our concerns seem to fobbed off. I think what bothers me most is i know of 3 other parents who have the same concerns. So just hearing others feel the same way is a bit alarming.

We would travel. Just need to make sure its the right thing to do. Its hard having school age kids!