Awesome girls - thanks! Very helpful indeed. Seems like I don't need to worry so much. DSs principal was lovely and welcoming and told us DS will learn all this stuff anyway. Good to hear some real life experiences though. DS loves to be included and loves rituals and music so I have a sneaking suspicion that mass will be right up his alley

HotI - cheers for the heads up re the prayers, that's the stuff I need, when we attend mass with DS a few times a year I won't feel like a total goose!