Hi
I've found my DS#1 kindy teachers wonderful - they are so caring to the ones who are upset to be there and spend a lot of time with them. My DS#2 will also be going 2010 at 3 yrs 8 months and i think he will be fine. He has never been to daycare or anything away from me until this June where he started a local 3 year old kindy. he only goes one a week for 2 1/4 hours but it has made the world of difference to him. He has so come out of his shell and realised he is his own person and not just an attachment of his older brother! Do you have a 3 year old kindy in your area that you could try her with?
When they first start kindy they usually only do 1/2 days for the first few weeks to get them used to it gently but most of them seemed to settle in quickly.

Julie x