School supplies - Share your cheap (online) supplier

[AnyDream]

I don't mind the sharing of supplies, subsidising a few pencils and so on for my children's classmates is no biggie. My boys have never run out of stuff even though the pencils in the class rooms are pretty stumpy by the end of the year.

Yeah, but when your child is trying to write in an unlined book (because the extras you sent with lines in have all been used) and only 1 out of 3 of their maths books have been graph paper ones, that's a bit ripe. Especially when you've stood in the classroom and witnessed another child using your lovingly covered and labelled books with your child's name scratched out .

ETA - Trill - yes, we were living in an above-average income area (demographically) but I know there was a "This is a public school therefore it should be FREE" mentality which meant that parents wouldn't buy stationery. Not necessarily because they couldn't. Mind you, the school's ordering/paying/collection stationery system was unneccessarily complicated (ie you had to order in December for the following year and there was a narrow pick-up window) so maybe that was a barrier for some families too.

[*Efjay*]

In prep, I don't mind the sharing of pencils etc. I would be happy if they did this (tins of coloured pencils per table group) in the higher grades as well, except I know my child(ren) would have issues with this. Not because they can't share but for Glenn perticular his ASD limits his tollerance to people touching, taking (or what he sees as grabbing at) things that are there for a group exercise. He once flipped a table over because they had to do a activity with the wooden counter blocks (you know, units, tens & hundreds). The teacher didn't think & each group of tables had been given a icecream container full of them to share. Each table tipped them up so they were spread out on the desk. But for Glenn, he seen what he needed/wanted but so many little hands grabbing at everything in no "order"was very overwhelming & yeah.. It ended badly. But had he been given his own container with a selection of what he would need he would have been fine. So the pencil sharing is fine for *me* but not my kids.

Anyway.. My problem with the "Sharing" of supplies is as its been pointed out above. I am already paying for the things MY children need for their education. I have 5 kids. This is not a cheap exercise for us, so to buy for my kids, who then miss out on using their things because other kids had nothing... well as I said, Im already buy for 5 kids, why am I buying for others especially when most schools would have a fund to dip into for under privileged students AND I am also paying a resource fee. To me its taking my money AND my supplies & giving my child nothing OR cheaper quality stuff because its all got shared out.

Our kids don't bring it all home each day. They have a Tidy draw at their desk for their books in use. Then they are meant to also supply a magazine holder to house their other supplies. But It just gets bundled up together.

Now on the flip side of this, I also feel it is unfair on other parents that they have to supply for other kids because chances are MY kid will be using their kids stuff. Not because my child was sent with nothing or because he used up his pages BUT because he destroyed his book(s) in a moment of frustration. This happened the in 2011. By the end of the year, even though I was replacing when I was told of it happening & had actually taken in a set of supplies for this reason. He was using sheets of paper because he could not go a day with out destroying his work. This OT but had they took the time to address the cause rather then just punish him for his actions it would not have been a continued problem. But its an endless battle I am learning..

Anyhoo.. I have ordered the bulk of the exercise books via office works & for the 3 kids in school it was under $30. I still need to do the stationary but will do that between kmart & big W sales. I should manage all that is needed for all 3 school kids under $150. Compared to using the schools supplier which would be $150 EACH.

[Rowellen]

Anyhoo.. I have ordered the bulk of the exercise books via office works & for the 3 kids in school it was under $30. I still need to do the stationary but will do that between kmart & big W sales. I should manage all that is needed for all 3 school kids under $150. Compared to using the schools supplier which would be $150 EACH.

Well done! That's a huge saving. TBH I'm surprised to hear that supplies sent in get shared with other students (not prep though). My personal experience was my parents supplied my things and they/I labelled & covered them all and if I ran out they replaced them. The school supplied some pencils for days when your own got broken but they were to be returned. I would have expected the same seeing as I haven't moved interstate. I don't mind paying a fee to cover underprivileged kids but to have my own kids things get shared around and have them miss out, I would be mighty annoyed.