^^ yeah, I agree with det! I think you should probably hold her back. Do you have to make a decision now for enrolment next year? ie: if you decide to send her in say term 3 or 4 can you wait until next year to make that decision or does it need to be now? She might actually mature emotionally with a baby in the mix b/c she won't have as much attention, so will need to do things for herself a bit more. GL, such a difficult decision.