I think you are right Berrme. It is mainly the wetting pants and it will prob get better as the weather gets warmer too. Preschool haven't said anything to me about any problems and they had his name on the big whiteboard as going to big school next year. They even sent the school starter pack home. Maybe I should do all the paperwork and get orientation under way and then make the final decision at the end of January. I think DH is another factor. He really thinks he is not ready but he is not here all day and only sees him for an hour at night when a 4 year is tired and ready for bed