my daughter is in grade 4 and this is the 3rd primary school she has been in. 1st school she did a year in prep and was sexually malled by a grade 1 boy more than once, we pulled her out into catholic school she was there for grade 1 and grade 2, she had learning probs and speeech probs they couldn't help, so back to public school where her 2 cousins are. She still there and did grade 3 and now this year grade 4. Her cousins left to move to queensland at the end of last year which i was glad about because she only ever played with them. This year she has struggled with the group of girls and it is a small school only 11 grade 4 girls, they leave her out and she just follows them around she says she has no friends. She got a wee infection and was stuck on toilet for the whole of lunchtime that was 4 weeks ago. Since then she is now crying hysterically that she doesn't want to go to school, she says she constantly feels like she has to pee even though nothing comes out, she is feeling sick sometimes too. So she had all medical tests done all clear we think maybe she got anxiety? I have anxiety pretty bad last 6 years an now freaking out that hse does too? Now i'm thinking of putting her in the school around the corner from our home, maybe the local kids will invite her over on weekends an after school because we are close I'm not sure if this will fix her anxiety problem an maybe she'd have more of a chance of making some NICE friends. Should we change her school??? it will be the 4th school crap is that really bad or is perserverence and teaching her resilience and not to run from problems so maybe we should leave her their???? Plus her brother in grade 1 is doing really well so we would have to up root him too. I need some advice please help.