Retrogal- it's ok I promise, it's the same topic anyway, so not really a hijack. :)
what about a psychologist? Which is what the doc would most likely give a referral for anyway, I dont know hun, you cant really help people who wont help themselves. :hug:
how does he feel towards your bub? Would giving it (for lack of a better word) a better life be an incentive, does he realise how expensive a baby/ child can be?
Please dont feel obligated to answer my million questions, I'm just trying to think of ways you could motivate him :)