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ok.. soo i think ive been rather pacient.. i had the first day of my period 3rd sept.. bd like crazy.. due for AF 30 Sept.. now its 3 Oct and no AF... tried a few different HPT and got BFN continually including today..
any one else ever had this prob and ended up positive?
i have symptoms but they could be AF symstoms.. and i am sooooo frustrated.. over the negative bit now i just want my AF so i can move on to the TTC bit again! hehehehehe
Hi - I am in the same boat as you!!! I'm on CD 37!!!! and only BFNs - so frustrating! Im pretty sure i'm not UTD (we didn't try very hard this cycle as i had the flu) I have some strange and very mild cramping but nothing else that tells me i'm pg or that AF is coming!
As encouragement - there are people who don't get BFPs via POAS (my mum never did with me!)I guess if AF doesn't show up soon visit the docs for a blood test!
Good Luck :goodluck::goodluck:
Kylie
Unfortunately this is all a big waiting game.... very frustrating!
After going off the pill my body went a bit crazy and my first cycle was 47 days or so. I got my BFP the next cycle which was shorter.
Controlfreak the month we concieved DD, DH was really sick with the flu and we hardly BD at all so I didn't think I could be pg, but I was! It only takes one time!
Amsta, have you been TTC long? If you've been on the pill it can take a while for your body to get back to normal, have you been charting??
UPDATE: Well its CD 40 and still no AF and a BFN with a Crystal Clear POAS. I have no idea what my body is doing. In my only other long cycle in 9 months I had terrible pains and backache etc and only got to 34 days! I'm going CRAZY!:wall:
How are you all going?
I really feel for you all. I had this happen before conceiving my DD. I went 3 mths without AF, but had BFN's. The dr was about to do some testing, when wham the worst AF I have ever had got me. It was long and yucky, but next month I fell preg.
All the best ladies, here's hoping they are false negatives. I think a blood test would be the best bet, as I have heard of BFP's from blood but not pee.
hi everyone,
with this pregnancy AF was three weeks late before I got a BFP. I went for a blood test when it was 2 weeks late and that was BFN along with the HPT. A week later when AF still hadn't come I POAS and it was faint positive so went for another BT and it was positive. Talk about confusing. I was pretty sure we weren't pg because we hadn't tried very often in this cycle but like Kristin said, it only takes once!! Hehehe. I really hope you get that BFP :pray: I was at the same point as you Amsta, just wanting AF to come so we could try again!
Hi all.. yes i have been on the pill but off for three months before trying this month.. this is the first month of trying so i am very confident that the symptoms that im feeling are all due to having an over due period.
thank you all for your stories it is soo great to be able to talk to someone.. my DH has gown up in a family of boys.. and i dont want to talk to my friends until we are UTD..
NIk you have given my a huge amount of confidence.. although i wont be upset if im not as there are plenty of other months to try but wishing id just get my AF so i can try hehe..
still tired.. no AF.. bright Urine.. and pulls in bellie every now and then.. also over the weekend every once in a blue moon i would get what felt like pins and needles on the inside of my breasts pointing outwards.. i have never had that b4 and i dont have sore breasts.. the body really is an amazing things isnt it! i did a test yesterday morning.. and still neg.
i would b 5wks now.. if i were but im one week over due today.. i dont think it is needed to go to the dr yet.. but if i dont get my AF in the next 2 weeks i will defo go.. (dont really want to be told im over reacting)
Nik congadulations on your 13 wks!
and control freak have you had symptoms? or any look of having a BFP??
Amsta do you think it's possible you haven't ovulated yet this cycle? Perhaps you should keep BDing until you get AF or your BFP? That way you know you have given it a real chance!
hey there kirsten.. im thinking that i did but then i thought i had ovulated 3 days b4 my AF was due.. so we BD.. im confused as to if i have or not.. (it was uncooked egg white looking CM)...
could i be Ovulating on day 25?
You could be ovulating this late if you're cycle is still working itself out after coming off the pill? That happened to me, I ovulated on about CD 30 or so when I was waiting for AF. That's why I suggest keep at it until you get AF or your BFP!
hey there kirstin thanks heaps for the advise.. as i said i went off it three months ago.. and i thort ovulating was when ur cm is like clear egg white..
to be honest i have only tried this month and i feel sexed out already!!! i love sex but hate the purpose etc..
but yeh when i did get that we had sex that day.. so maybe thats why i havent got it.. i might get a test tonight and have a go tomorrow.. and just continue Belly Dancing!
ihow long did it take after u came off the pill to fall?
Hi There!
Although it is so soon don't rule out the possibility of being pg either... with DD I went off the pill, got my period once then I was pg. I also had alot of strange am I aren't I with the HPT until one day there it was a dark BFP. We were not charting or anything, I had no idea about the whole ovulationg thing when we tried for DD, we were just doing the BD and hoping for the best, and may I say we did not do it that often, just must have been the right time!
Good Luck.
Deanne.
Yes when you ovulate your CM is like egg whites, but to be honest I could never tell what was going on by my CM. I got pg my second cycle after coming off the pill, that was the first month I did temping but I think it was just luck with the timing that me charting.
I agree it does take some of the fun out of it when you're like "Okay let's have sex now I think I'm ovulating!" Not very romantic. I wouldn't worry about doing it every single day, just relax and let it happen. Easy for me to say I know.
PS. Before I got my BFP I had cramps and tingles down my back every now and then which was strange for me, so your symptoms could be positive!
hey there kirstin! i went to the dr's today.. i had to go for something else and she asked how iw as going.. told her i was nearly 2 weeks late.. she did a urine test and it was neg. she said if i dont have my AF in the next 2 weeks to come back and she would re test.. if nothing then send me for a blood test.
im totally convinced that my AF is just over due... and out of wack..
Just thought I would let you know that this is happening to my sister ATM too she got told by her Doctor that it very normal for ladies to miss cycles completly after going to the pill.... I know not very helpful but there you have it....
BTW it can take awhile after getting of the pill to get UTD it took us ages 18 mth for DS 2yrs for DD1 but only 3 mth for DD2... They say to go to the doctors after a year of trying... We got UTD with both DS and DD after going to get BHL's :sperm: tested and I got checked out must have given his little fellas the kick in the butt they needed....
Well this cycle is over for me. After 43 day I got AF at 1am this morning. Very heavy and extremely painful (more so than usual) especially in my back. At least I can look forward to cycle #10 now! Good luck for you Amsta.
Controlfreak-EEeek about the pain. I hope that it wasnt a long painful AF for you. Sending you heaps of sticky vibes for this cycle.:stickyvibesboy:
Amsta what is happening with you now? I am having a similar situation and only came off the pill 3 or 4 months ago as well. Only I had 2 BFNs and then got a very very faint BFP yesterday which was 6 days after AF was due...went to drs and had blood test...result showed HCG up but only just up (it was 24) so dr not prepared to say I am pregnant or not. SO confused...when we fell pregnant with our DD, I had been off the pill 1 month and fell first time we had unprotected sex, which if I AM pregnant right now, it will be the exact same situation only we waited a bit longer. Grrr...it's so frustrating huh.