Tubal Reversals #8

Here is a thread where you can chat with others about TTC after a tubal reversal... The old thread can be found here

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Hi Everyone,
Hope your all having a good weekend.
For me, I'm not too sure what is going on inside me today.
I'm on the last day of my AF today, thank god cause I really suffer with pain from it. And, I was really happy to see it arrive as I hadn't had 1 for a few months. I took it as a good sign that I am still ovulating, just what I need otherwise they won't even try to do the op.
But today, I feel a little lost, and having some doubts.
DH and I are having the reversal done at the royal women's hospital in melbourne. We've got for our first appointment next month and have been told that the waiting list to have it done through the public system at NO COST is about a year.
Before today we were happy to wait as that time will give us the time we need to work out finances for when i fall pregnant and stop working to have bubs.
Today I have been questioning whether I am crazy going through all of this now, when we have just bought a house. I have my dream job and earn fairly good money, I already have 3 wonderful boys and 2 step kids as well, and I am currently 33. So by the time I at least have the op and start the process I will be at least or very close to 35. Am I crazy??? Or should I just put this down to hormones and me worrying too much???
HELP!!

Hi Fcnessi,
We all have our bad days and our ups and downs,i guess it depends on how much you really want this. For me i wish i didnt have the reversal and just went and did IVF straight away, Less costs and time waiting to have it done then waiting to fall pregnant and alot more chances at falling pregnant. We are all different and everything happens for a reason

Thanks for the words of encouragement mumof5
Feeling better about things now. Who was I kidding before??? Myself I think. I want to have another baby more than I want to breathe. Must of just been hormones.
All is good again now and my train of thought is back on track.
How about you, how are things going, how you feeling with the tablets???
Take care darl, my thoughts are with you always. ;):pray:

Thats good to hear that your all back on track. I know how you feel tho,sometimes it just seems all to hard. Yeah im ok thanks for asking,wishing the days aways tho hate waiting. I feel good tired but thats normal for me. Im just so hoping all goes well and nothing goes wrong. I read posts in another thread about other peoples cycles going bad and the smallest little thing can stop your cycle from going ahead. Its also good in another way cause it perpares me for the worst,like all the things the doctors dont tell you. Thats the best thing about belly the advice
Take care mate

Fcnessi,I am 35 & I must say age doesn't bother me, we're thinking about trying for number 6 in another 7 months .

hi ladies,:hello:
on monday we go and see the nurse co-ordinator for ivf. Hopefully start soon still waiting for the money to come in. We are know looking at september or october start.
But i'm ok with that, it's not along wait. We figured we never go to term in pregnancy any way.
(holidays nearly finished:dance::dance:)

ray:D

Hi Ladies....HOORAY...school holidays are over and the painful ones are back at school and now i can sit back are rediscover my sanity which i think got zapped away by those nasty..nasty kid gremlins. Hope you all are doing good. Fcnessi, glad to see that you are back on top again. I had the same issue about the age thing recently, but thanks to everyone, got me back on track again. Take care all....Cheers kiya :D

Hi Kiya lets not talk about school holidays!!! mine dont go back till next tuesday and boy am I over them........ Mum can wee do this can we go here,im done im going crazy.
Im feeling pretty good on day 6 of my pills but who's counting LOL.13 more days till i start my nazel spray. MY GOD i went to a kick boxing class last night just for something new and cause im getting sick of swimming. WOW do i hurt today,had a real crappy sleep cause everytime i moved it hurt. Its on again on thursday so i'll have to think long and hard if im going again (hehe)
Take care all

hey everyone, have been busy lately. reading up on everyone. nothing happening with me. glad that everyone is excitied about appointments. soon will all be seeing the positive!!!!!!!!

hi everyone i've been busy. haven't had time to do anything so i hope everyone is doing well. talk again soon.

WOW!!!...Not that i'm counting or anything, but "18" days till my first appt. I'm getting so excited and nervous all at once. Hey Dea, what is Dr Sidhu like? Is he the type to try and talk you out of getting the TR done or is he a helpful dr? This is the nervous part of how i am feeling right now. I would be so devastated if he said NO to the TR. I am so wanting another bub. Cheers Kiya

kiya when i went for my first appt i seen this other person first and then he took me in to see dr sidhu. and dr sidhu asked him if he explained the complications that could happen. and i was like yeah whatever i just want my tubes reversed. then after that he asked me how old i was and then he asked how old my dh was. and if he had any other children. he is a really nice doctor. he won't say no he's done heaps of reversals. so you'll be right.

Hello Ladies
Remember me...im the silly woman that forgets a new thread gets started PMSL
Ive hit the 13 week mark WOO HOO!!!! 5 more weeks until I have my u/s and Jed is defently getting the snip. Doc said whether I get the clamps or cut my tubes out I'll still end up UTD so Jed is coming to my 19 weeks check up and getting the doc to send him to someone about getting it done. YAY cause I was so worried about having all that dame pain again.
I have been diagnoised with hypermesis - or sever m/s. Ive lost 9 kg and have very high blood pressure already it was 140/90 yesterday, plus the blurry vision, head aches and blood noses...OB wasnt happy and said if things dont improve there could be a chance that I end up in hospital....lalalal (hands over the ears) wonder if they have 24 hour daycare PMSL
Other news - a friend of mine had her lap last week and the docs at the royal womans in melbourne said they can reverse one tube but the other on is to short. She is totally wrapped...one is better than none
Ok enough dribble from me a made pg woman
hop eyour all well and can someone please come and fold my 6 baskets of washing.....please

Hi all,
hope your all doing well. Iv`e been out of touch for a while, our lap top crashed last week and we have just got a new desk top with a flat screen, heaps more user friendly.
My sister and her family have been staying with us for a couple of weeks (they are from Melbourne) they have a 3 year old, he is so funny, and an 8 month old little girl and she is so cute and I`m so clucky !! even DH has been cooing and playing with her.
I want one so bad.
Sorry maz, my laundry looks like a laundromat !!

hi ladies thought i'd pop in and ay hi. i'm pretty annoyed my car's alternator has s@#t itself and my dh had to ask his brother to loan him the money he's working at fortitude valley and dh husband has to go there after he drops his truck off at rocklea. and be back here by 4. maz i have got about three baskets full to fold and it's mostly my daughter's. geez she goes through clothes. how's everyone else.

Hi girls just wanted to drop in and say hello.
Good luck with it all maz
DEA....CARS there nothing but trouble sometimes.
Hi to everone else.
ME- well my next part of the treatmeant starts tomorrow,nazel spray. Heard it can give you really bad headaches so im hopeing that dont happen to me.One of the other ladies said she takes all her injections and stuff before she goes to bed that way she doesnt get many side effects as she is asleep for the worse part of it,Smart woman. I best be doing the same thing.
Take care all.XX

Hi Ladies, I'm still alive too. Zaccie put some money in the disc drive....... no pc for a week he he he all better now.

hi mumof5,
we had our appointment with the nurse coordinator at ivf today.
we are starting ivf in september :dance:so were not that far behind you.
My hubby is thinking about joining the army full time
hope everyone has a great week.

ray:dance:

hey everyone, just dropping a line. just about to go back to uni. great to here em. good for you too ray. how interesting about the side effects. Well nothing exciting happining with me in that area but only God knows the real reasons. I also wanted to let everyone know about a email I recieved from a nurse in the NT. It says that a 2 year old boy died from playing in the ball pit area. He had a syringe head jammed in his leg and died from heroine overdose. There was also another boy who died from being bitten several times from copperhead snakes. This things were in the bottom of the ball pits. They don't clean them- they also found faeces, vomit, dirty nappies, urine and other dirty stuff (not that you would need anymore?) Great to see your progressing maz.... sorry about your pc storm, hey to everyone too!

Thats great Ray.Went and seen the nurse to today and started my nazel spray.I feel ok so far, it tastes yuk tho.It was running down the back of my throat.I have to have another tonight,twice a day at the same time like 8am and 8pm.
Hey LUV wats new? When are you going for another HCG? I hate the ball pits.When i was little they always scared me cause i felt like i was sinking and couldnt get out.

lchildren - I got that email about 2 months ago...appartently its a hoax but it sure as hell put the wind up me.
Hello everyone in cyber land.
14 weeks and 2 days pg...and still sick as a dog. 4 more weeks until we can start calling Mr Squiggle by their real name.
BBL need to have a shower casue im feeling YUCKO

Hi Ladies....Glad to see that everyone is doing good. Only a few more days till my first appt. I'm getting really excited now. The last 2 weeks have been a little upsetting as 3 ladies i know have all given birth to boys all within days of each other. Then another friend is due anyday now with a boy. Just so wish it was me joining them. Today has been the day from h*ll. My cars radiator is shot. It took us 2 hours to get from Laidley to the Riverlink centre because the car kept overheating. Now we have to replace the darn thing and it isn't cheap. Well that is my little gripe for the day. Take care everyone. Cheers kiya

Hey Maz wat do you think your having???? Normally us women can tell

im steering towards another girl but dont want to get my hopes up. This pg is nearly identical ot VY's, bit more sicker this time but and OMG ive popped out so much, have a looky in the gallery section under my name

He he Maz, yep you're in trouble!! Gorgeous piccie!!

im still hoping its just one at this stage
how you going woman?

ooohh Maz twins?????
I'm ok alot of stress going on right now I have reached boiling point I reckon!!!

omg angel is what - 7 months already??!!!!!
i hope your ok
Vy the little f@rt is walking flat out and loves screaming at anything (not her mothers child)
I hope eveyrone is going great guns with their IVF and appointments......

Yeah 7 months when did that happen?? Zaccie will be 2 in less than 2 weeks too!!
Dylan is coming home!!!!! I'm so happy, but it's under terrible circumstances for him.

Gosh Maz, Vy is walking? Holey cow!!

Hey how do i add pictures on here or do a homepage?????

you need to have a photo gallery or site for your picks to put on your homepage matie. I use flicker dot com

Ok ive made a flickr thing now wat do i do?

wOOhOO I did it.Somethings seem so hard to do but there real easy :lol:

hey maz, great news about vy walking or maybe not lol. it soo much fun running after them lol.
kiya, so excited for you... hope that it can be reverse them easily
em, no no more hcg. I have polycystic ovaries at the moment. it has been that way for a long time. not a lot i can do about it. I might go and see gyno again but I will just continue to pray. happy about you and the ivf... just can't wait to hear that you have double trouble!!!!!

hey luvchildren.....yes i am getting very excited now....even dh is getting excited about monday. i agree about hope they are able to do a reversal and easily...i will let you all know how it all went :-) cheers kiya

mumof5 copy & paste the bb code into you siggie.
Kiya, best of luck for your op, hope all goes smoothly.

HAHA Luv i'll be very happy with one thanks. Yeah go back and see the specialist seems like something weird is going on.
Good luck Kiya hope all goes well :pray:

Thanks Storm i managed to work it out yesterday,not very hard at all.

good luck kiya i hope it all goes well for you. :) and a big hello to everyone else:)

Hi All....well today has officially been classed as the worst day of my life. I went to my appointment, to be given a big fat NO. The dr said that they stopped making new appointments for the TR 6mths ago. I have waited all this time to be seen, and to travel a long way to be in office for a total of 5 mins. The dr was very rude, and basically said to me that in order for me to have the TR done publically, either my husband had to be killed and i had to have a new husband or one of my children. I was absolutely floored with that one. He then proceded to tell me that if i wanted this bad enough, and in his opinion i shouldn't have any more children because i didn't need anymore children, i should then go private. I walked out of his practically in tears, and went straight to my husband and 2 girls. I have never had my heart so torn apart by anyone until today. I don't know where to go now. I guess we are now having to look at going private, goodness knows how much that will cost me. I am however determined to find a way of having another baby, and if it means we have to go private, then i guess it will mean that we can try sooner. Time for me to go and have another cry. Cheers kiya :cry: