TTC after Tubal Reversal #17

This is a thread where you can chat with others about TTC after a tubal reversal.

The previous thread can be found here https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...sals-16-a.html

thanks mummy25....we will do our IVF together.....deal.....i have had the worst time since not being online thanks to that darn biarch.....i haven't been able to sleep at nite because of her and her BS stories that she is now trying to tell when she calls us trying to claim she is another family member.....sadly we all know what she sounds like, but she is playing us for the fools fool.......i wish she would just crawl under a rock and die......sorry for venting girls, but she just pushes all my buttons.....kiya

Its alright Kiya we all need to vent every now and then, where always here! xxx

I might have missed when you are starting kiya, i am starting my ivf next year but after reading about the other BFP's, i wish it were sooner. but we have booked our holiday and already planned for early next year. hopefully someone will be on the journey with me, i have become a daily follower of this forum lately, so i better start contributing a bit more so it doesn't look like i am spying on you girls! lol

hey startingover.....atm i have put my IVF on hold as i am awaiting the outcome of my sons hospital visit next month for his brain bleeds and tumor. when i get the all clear from that, then we will look at gettign the ballback in motion again to start my IVF.

thanks mumof6.....that darn snagglepuss just won't leave is alone.....she must be one hell of a lonely and spiteful person to be keeping on with this rubbish....that or her dh finally saw her for the person she really is and got rid of her....oh well it is all now in the hands of our lawyer....like they say "karma is a biarch, so this biarch is a karmin"...hehehe

cheers kiya

kiya : I agree with mumofsix we all need to vent, we are here for you anytime...

mumofsix: last time I drank (this was early september this year) I threw up on the couch upstairs in the pub's smoking area.
I had only enough warning to push the guy beside me forward so I didnt throw up on him (I didnt know him from a bar of soap) however I was lucky everyone got in and cleaned it up so I would not get thrown out by the bouncers.
I think my drink may have been spiked as I didnt feel sick it just came up with no warning come to think of it the lights were dancing but that could have been me just being very drunk???
I dont think I will be going back there in a hurry...
I am lucky to drink 2 drinks total all night but this night I was drinking smirnoff double black and had a few of them I guess...
when I finally got home at 8.30am my df could smell me as I walked in the door and it was not pretty...
I really feel for you and hope you feel better soon.

startingover: kiya and I will be pregnant with you Here is hoping!!!.

To everyone else I hope you are all well.

Mummy25..... I don't normally drink and if i do its only one or two.
So having TWO bottles was...well lets say way to much for me(outside singing like a pray hehe and the national Anthem lol with my friend).
Well I guess it was a good night and i made it a good one since it will be my last for awhile now.
OH maybe not cause its my little girls 1ST Birthday (friday)this weekend coming:partysmiley:
Im so cranky cause i have made plans for this lady to come. Her business is called theres a fairy in my garden.
So she comes and does games and face painting and entertains the kids for 2.5 hours and bring everything with her(saves me doing it).
But ive been calling for the last 4day just to confirm it all and she hasn't answered my calls or replied to my voice mail message.
I'll be so pi$$ed if she cancels now.

I hope the fairy arrives mumofsix I hate people who cant be bothered calling you back its very frustrating..
I hope breah has a wonderful 1st birthday party...
I am so bored today my children have finally settled down and are watching movies and Im just sooo bored.....

how is qld today KIYA???

bored i wish i had that problem. My kids have been terrible today the little $hits.
They so need to go back to school.
Well i decided this morning that i should call someone else for Breahs party so i did.
This guy tried all day calling his works and finaly found someone for the party yay.
Then the other lady finally calls back and leaves a message so now im stuck.
But i think stuff her if she didnt get my messages till now as she claims she still should have called by now to confirm.

MUMOFSIX: just after I put the reply up in here about being bored my kids went ape and turned into little sh#ts running through the house and arguing, oh well it was good while it lasted.
my kids go back to school tomorrow and I will be up and ready at the crack of dawn.
I am glad you sorted someone else out for the party and agree that the first one should get the flick as she sounds unreliable.
How did you find the biggest looser tonight? I am just taking a quick break in between shows before the final at 8.30pm..
I am happy that bob made it but sad nathan did not.
I think that bob will win and shariff second with tiffany and sammy to follow.
The three that most deserved to be in th final should have been bob, nathan and shariff as they worked so darn hard to get to the end.
I hope the give nathan something for all his hard work.
I'll have to wait till 2010 for the biggest looser and by then I will probebly be fat enough to audition (I HOPE NOT)....

uh lost!!It took me a while to figure out we had a new thread lol
Hope you're all well.

welcome back storm I am glad you found us...

I need tissues now after the biggest looser final...

Yes it was an awesome final. I was on the edge of my seat, almost couldnt watch hehehe. Now i dont have anything to watch each night after i put the kids to bed:(
Did anyone notice we are called TTC after tubal reversal not tubal reversal anymore???

hey mumof6....yeah i noticed it when i made the first post.....hmmmmm very strange indeed.

i agree with not having anything to watch now that BL is over.....so glad they are doing couples again next year.....but don't think anyone will ever come close to my man BOB.....sherif and nathan also looked amazing.....now i am watching masterchef, and making dh watch that with me now....LOL like i said it will give him some pointers....the rat turned around and said "what pointers on how to burn water and baked beans".....LOL

cheers kiya

The best man won I agree..
I like the new chef show and hope it will give me a few pointers as I love to cook I am just not that good at it..

:happyforyou:Mrzbaby...OMG im so happy for you,did you test again?

Hi Kiya.....Dam that Biarch for still trying to upset your family,she is stalking you guys surely there is some law to stop this???

Hi Mumof6...Yep i cant wait until you get started,not long now hey.
We may be calling you mumof8 soon hehe.

Hi Storm....You little boy is sooooo cute!

Hi Mummy25....Nah i dont watch much TV coz i have my foxtel on 24/7 so didnt get into the biggest loser this year.

Well ladies our kids go back to school tommorro yayyy but back to the hassel of pic ups and early morning rushes.I have another scan on Saturday so cantwait for that coz im still a bit worried that something will go wrong.We have decided to sell our HUGE home coz we have less kids living with us now boohoo,my oldest DS has gone and my DD is now looking at rentals so its pointless to have a double story 5 bed home,we will go back to our old home coz its going to be easier with babies in a single story home i reckon.The only problem is home opens and all the B*****Y cleaning,but i need to be settled before bubs are due so i better get some energy from somewere.
Ok better get off and think of dinner.

Dearmum how sad selling your home but wont you still need 5 rooms since your adding 2 more to the family? I remember when my ex DH and i were selling our house and all the open homes. What a hassel!!!Where's our weekly tummy shot????????

Well all new find my family is on tonight yay. I just ball when that shows on.

hey dearmum.....i wish......now we don't just have her doing it, we have a so called older daughter doing it, which i have just found out does not even exist....how sick is that......dh spoke with his lawyer tonight about what she is doing and he is calling csa tomorrow and informing that they have to block on all of our personal details.....we are changing all of our phone numbers and making them silent.... we shouldn't have to be doign any of this, but if it will stop her from harassing us then so be it.....cheers kiya

Hi Mumof6....Yeh i love that show also anything and everything makes me cry lately.
Yeh i am sad to sell as it took us 2yrs to build our dream home and we have only been in it for 1.5yrs but we will have more spending money going back to the smaller home and life is to short,i need my holidays and spending money every now and then and i guess with little ones i would worry about them falling down the stairs as we live upstairs more because our kitchen is upstairs.We will only end up with 3 kids next year as my youngest DS wants to move out also,how sad.
Dont know if i told you guys but 2008 was our worst year i lost $500,000 in shares and seven houses and my baby Shaheed,so this year were forced out to work hard labour and being in a million dollar home is making life very hard with one salary.Life sure is full of ups and downs and i pray we all have a better year this year.

Hi Kiya.....We were posting at the same time,she is one sick lady hey.
Yep i would be doing the same change the phone number and stuff you need peace.
I think i would have threatened her with a gun,GRRRR.
Take care ok dont let her win,be strong for your family XX

dearmum: I feel really poor now LOL...
we have a 5 yr old home and it cost us $375,000 and now its dropped in value to $350,000 due to the economic crisis.
however our repayments have dropped heaps too.
we would love to sell up and move to tas but we wont have a deposit if we sell now so we are stuck here..
As for holidays what are they???
never been on one, we did go camping once though..
We get money in and **** its gone (OUCH)..
2008 was not a good year for you but 2009 will see you welcome twins and they will be happy wherever you live..

Im watching dan in real life the movie and its funny except my bird keeps trying to eat my ear ring and keeps biting my ear's...

ohh it censured my word and I wasnt swearing laughs.

Hi girls well i seen the FS today and we got the a o ok to continue. And yes he said we can have 2 put back. How exciting...........So now im just waiting for AF to arrive

Congrats mumofsix I hope you get twins....
what doctor did you see? have you there number?
Im thinking of maybe starting ivf in july when my df stops work.
(he is going to take leave without pay for 3 months and take some time off)...
my AF arrived 1 week early grrrr and then I will continue for 2 weeks and maybe get a break for a week again... grrrrr why I had my tubes tied is beyond me....
(not to mention the itchy skin driving me insane)....
before having a TL my AF was strictly 4 days now its 14 days...
There should be a law against having a TL when you are giving birth or for at least 12 months following birth us women simply dont think clear enough after we have just given birth, the memories are very fresh of what we just went through...

Mummy25 i Pm you his details

Hi Ladies.....Grrrr last night we had a scare,at 4am there was a bunch of abos that jumped our fence and got into our yard they left a bang so we all woke up anyway my youngest DS rushed out and he seen them with broken glass bottles they told him to back off so he did just aswell,the dogs were barking mad so i think that made them leave but now im worried they will come back to get what they wanted:(
I feel like getting myself a gun no joke!
Sorry have to go and cook dinner hubby be home in 10mins oops.

Thankyou mumofsix....
Dearmum: OMG That would have frightened the living Poop out of me I hope you are ok...
I did the same tonight i had a lazy day with No kids and just as my df was about to come home I did the mad rush to tidy up then told him I was so relaxed today that he had to get pizza for dinner, i love payday...

Dearmum..gee how scary glad everyone is ok. Id be still scared to if it was me.
Hopefully the house sells soon and you can move and get ready for the bubbas.
I was so worried when we had our house on the market that someone would see all the pic's on the real estate site and like something and try and break in.
Have you joined your belly buddy group yet?
Hope your scan goes well on saturday.

Well girls our little princess is a big one today.
I can't help but feel really emotional today "strange".
She is truely a joy and im so blessed to have her.
However I wasn't to happy when she woke at 12:46am thinking it was party time till 3am.
Very strange for her to wake at all.
So we jumped online and surfed the net together which I won't be doing AGAIN.
To many things for little fingers to touch!!
Happy Birthday my little Angel Baby.....Mwah!

Happy 1st birthday Breah.....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY Breah and Little Rosebud

Oh Mumof6.....Please give Breah a big hug from me ok,i hope she got really spoilt today XX

So tired today i didn't even send the kids to school. We had Breah's Birthday party yesterday and it was huge. Fairy lady was great she did all of the above so it was well worth the money and we also did apple bobbing and pinata's. I made way to much food as usual:rolleyes:. We had princess plates cups balloons, you name it it was princess everything.
Better go and keep cleaning up. xxx

mumofsix : sounds like you had a very busy fun filled day, I hope your other children let you rest a bit today...

dearmum: did you have your ultersound on saturday? how did you go??
I hope everything went well...

Hi Ladies;)
Mumof6.....I bet you enjoyed her birthday just as much as breah:p,oh babies grow up so quick then before ya know it there getting married like mine.

Hi Mummy25....Nah i didnt end up going to my scan i felt to lazy to wake up as i needed to be there at 8am and being a weekend that was just way to hard hehe.I do have my 12 week scan next Monday so i will have to wait now.I just had my NT blood test done but i wont get my results until next week it scares me thinking about the what ifs.Im also very nerous just incase theres only one baby left,but will know one way or the other come Monday.I have started to feel flutters now its cute i notice them when im lying flat on my back and relaxing.

Ladies i was thinking of finding out bubs sex but keep it a secret to my family what do ya think?Hehe i even have my 20 week scan booked for the 1st of July and i go away on the 2nd,im going to get a 3d scan that day cant wait.
Well how is everyone?its been very quiet in here.

Dearmum: If you bleeding has settled and you are not in any pain there is no suggestion anything could be wrong with the bub's...
out of my 5 pregnancys I bleed with the last 4 of them until I was 12 weeks pregnant, they could not tell me why it was happining but it does scare you.
My second eldest child they told me I had lost her at 6 weeks pregnant (as i was bleeding bright blood and heaps of it and my cervix had actually opened up) but at 10 weeks I had another scan and they told me she was alive and at 18 weeks they made me have that needle in my stomach to collect fluid as they thought she had problems but that came back clear too and told us she was a girl.. (I know the name of this test but i cant spell it, here goes "aminocentisis" <=== spelt wrong)
miracles can happin....

Hi Girls....Sorry for not being on, but i have been looking after my daughter. She had a tooth extracted 2 weeks ago and her gum and jaw bone are now infected and the infection has spread down into her gland......She is now on another course of antibiotics and pain killers and another week off school.....I will try and keep up to date with everyone.....Cheers Kiya

Hi Ladies;)
Well not much happening my end just taking day one day at a time and trying to put my worries out of my head.Not long now until its my DD wedding (27th June) so im starting to think of what im going to wear,so i guess next week i might go out looking.
I have my NT scan on Monday and im really looking forward to that just to see them again,i will post some photos on face book ok.
I am still eating like a pig and i mean like a pig but have only put on 1kg i really cant beleive it its like the babies are eating it all or something.Im still on antibiotics coz the infection keeps coming and going im going to get the hospital OB to check my kidneys coz its really not normal to be having them every month.I have my first OB appt on the 27th so not that far away.

Mummy25....Thanks for the reasurance i hope to just have a good outcome like you.
The thing is yrs ago i had a fortune teller come up to me and grab my hand anyway he said i will have 5 kids i said hmmm ok at that time i already had my 4 kids and a TL so i thought whatever but you know its always played on my mind so now i have had my 5 kids it worrys me more because if i have these babies it will mean 7 kids so i just hope everything stays ok i mean i know its no point worring and things are up to god at the end of the day its just that his words keep hunting me every now and then.But yep what will be will be.

Ladies cant wait for you guys to start your IVF we need more prego ladies in here hehe.
Well better go and start dinner.

Hi girls,

hope everyone is well....i so wish i was pregnant right now!!!!!!! don't want to wait!!!
I think it is because i haven't had a period for about 7-8weeks. I had my TL in 2002 and due to pain and heaviness of periods i had a mirena iud put in. it stopped the pain but i was getting my period every 2 weeks and it was driving me mad so i took it out about 5 weeks ago and haven't had my period for about 7-8wks in total. i know i cant be pregnant cause of the TL but have taken 2 HPT which of course say negative. i guess it was wishful thinking, so maybe my hormones are all weird cause of having the iud out.
not that i miss my af! lol

oh boy i do hope this gets through.....haven't been able to post anything