Have you fixed the tears in the squares? You could hand stitch some of it, or even better applique over the top of it?
I have Fleur... Sorry, I didn't explain myself very well. I handstiched similar colored material behind the damaged squares and then stitched the rips onto the material behind so it can't catch and rip even further.

JR, I love having part of my family on the quilt... Makes it that much more special!