hi its shannon one thing my daughter really likes for her party she gluten and wheat intolerant is jelly cups with a plain choclate frog in it. you can get donuts from coles the (freedom foods) they are found in the freezer bit. the kids really like them. In that brand you can also get chicken nuggest. Also ask the mother if she would like to make the birthday cake as the preasent. that what i do. Or make a cup cake up and put it a side when cutting the cake just give the cup cake to that child. any thing els just ask i know it can be hard i work alot with my friends when my child who is now 5 gets invited to partys.