I do most of the deciding. DH does most of the cooking. We do a monthly menu so we only go shopping once a month for staples & do a fruit & veg shop once or twice a week. DH did last months menu though but didn't do the shopping lists at the same time so we've had to go to the supermarket several times already lol. I usually decide on the menu with input from DH on about 4 meals. I also do shopping lists for the months meals and estimates for what is needed for lunches/breakfasts/snacks. We keep it simple during the week with simple meat & veg meals and mix it up on friday to sunday with stir-fries, curries, soups, and so on. We like to try at least two new recipes a month, but it depends on how we are feeling on the day. We don't always stick to the menu. Which reminds me, I need to get started on January. DH's effort for December has messed up my pantry & freezer lol. (I do appreciate that he did it though ) ETA: forgot to answer original question - we had thai style pumpkin soup, chosen by DH & cooked by DH as I was out with the kids.