I agree totally, if they are staying in my house, no matter what the mum says it would be definately seperate rooms. If they are staying under my roof they would need to obide by my rules. Actually thinking about it I wouldn't allow the boyfriend to be staying over in the first place. There is no way known my daughter would be staying at her boyfriend's house and vice versa. All the best with this, you really are in a pickly. Hope it all works out.

Regards,
Dianne