My imaginary friend Jenny was around till I went to pre-school at the age of 4 and met a real Jenny. Mum said she never heard about imaginary Jenny ever again and thank goodness for that, Jenny drove her mad! Apparently she would have to pretend to wash Jenny in the bath, set a plate at the table for Jenny (she drew the line at putting food on it!), while I sat on half the chair because Jenny was on the other half. Jenny would sleep in bed with me etc etc. I have no memory of it though!

However she did say that she never ever made any negative comments about it or say that Jenny didn't exist or let anyone else do that because she thought it would be harmful emotionally. I was an only child for quite a while because my parents couldn't get pregnant easily and I believe it was partly for company and partly through a child's fertile imagination that Jenny was around.

I wouldn't worry - what a great imagination your DD has. It is very normal. Don't fret about your initial comments either - while I wouldn't encourage imaginary friends I wouldn't discourage them either...it's just a stage, it gives her comfort, and she will grow out of it. Allow her to talk about her friend - it keeps the lines of communication open.