(Drama unfolding) Nintendo to school - yes or no?

[AngelPunks]

let her take it to school, but remind her of how hard she worked for it, so if something happens to it then all that hard work has gone down the drain

maybe as a "treat" if it comes home all in one piece that you match her dollar for dollar on a game for it? because she's shown responsiblity? Just a thought

[Tinks]

My kids are allowed to take thier DSs to school a couple of times a year and I've never found any problems whith it. But their teacher usually keeps them at her desk while they're not using htem.

[AnyDream]

Ok, so the consensus is that I'm just a little bit paranoid...? LOL

Let her take it, I'm sure if she has saved up so hard she will take EXTRA care. If not, hard lesson learned....

Wise words, oh wise-mother-of-teenager Lulu!

And I can definitely see the value of that. I'm just having a hard time dealing with the expectation that children WILL have these things (we held off until, well, NOW and she's 10.5) AND that they are so commonplace that it's no big to take them to school. Like they are so commonplace that it's the new 'normal' to have them. My DH and I both never had Donkey Kongs etc back in the day - our families couldn't afford them and we made do!

[~Raven~]

Seeing as it's a special rare occasion and they are allowed I would let her take it. I wouldn't any other day though!

[Ginger]

yeah i think you should let her take it as a 'one off'.

make sure that the teacher has extra security measures in place though- like locking it in her office over lunchtime- and that dd's name is clearly attached to it.

[Macca79]

I have to say that while I can see the teacher wanting to give the kids a treat I do disagree with it. As a teacher during the end of the school year there is so much going on such as classroom change overs, furniture being moved so the school can be cleaned over the holidays etc it is very easy for things to be lost and pinched. And something like a Nintendo is very tempting to hands that like to pinch things. Last year I had two students bring electronic games to class both of which were stolen during our end of year concert from the classroom and I had to spend my last day at school dealing with parents who thought that it was my responsibility to safeguard their child's belongings. I really do suggest that you think it over and if you do send it to school please realise that it is not the teachers responsibility to protect the game. We are flat out dealing with students, pack ups, room cleans, returning missing library books, packing up computer equipment etc. It is not that we are a mean bunch of people it is just that we know how devastating it can be to a kid when a treasured toy/game goes missing and the reality is that once it is gone we are only able to do so much, often with little result.

[Salsa]

Our last school newsletter mentioned someone was missing their DS and wanted it back...

I had to chat with my kids teacher even about stuff brought in for show and tell - to make sure it would be safe. And I talked to him about if he really wanted to take it he had to know there was a chance it could be stollen or broken and did he want to consider taking something else?

But then I often wonder if Im overly paranoid about stuff like that?