Yeah my sister has finally gotten herself together at the age of 30. I hope that isn't too depressing that it took so long, but it's better than nothing at all. She left home at 14 and lived with a 25 year old man (she was in a sexual relationship with him) who was wanted for the police for drug trafficking (which she got involved in herself) and car theft. She's had a few instances of break and enter and lots of hard drug use. She has kept a job for the last year solid and has a solid relationship with another man now, although she still doesn't have custody of her daughter. Two of my BIL's also got into a lot of trouble with armed break and enter between 17 and 20, one is now an upstanding citizen, the other has been in and out of jail his whole life with robbery and drugs charges. They are in their early 40's now.