How do I deal with this situation

[diannescruffy]

Thanks hun, I've already told DH that there will be no more sleepovers at anyone's house and for now he will be going to school and straight back home again. I will also ban him on the computer. We have already talked to him about why we don't want him to hang around J and how important it is but obviously he doesn't understand or doesn't want to. I'm going to go around again soon as now it's past dinner and he normally rings me to let me know what's going on and what he's doing, it's just so not like him.

Regards,
Dianne

[Lulu]

Little BUGGER!

But yeah, from now always ring the mum before he leaves to go.....and bannd forever from staying at this kids house.

It's ok though, not a failure on your part, he isn't a BAD BAD kid....just pushing boundaries like they all do xoxoxoxo

[diannescruffy]

Thanks Lulu, he sure is pushing the boundaries. Just got back from J's house and they are at the movies but then again I don't even know if that is true . I told the mum's boyfriend that when DS gets back to send him straight home.

Regards,
Dianne

[feeb]

Hugs hun he is a little bugger as if you haven't had enough stress in last few weeks.

Hope he gets home soon

[diannescruffy]

When he wasn't back at 8.00p.m I went back around to J's house, as I walked up to the porch I could smell marjuana (sp). His mum's partner told me they are in town and J's mum is just about to go get them. I said don't worry I'll go, I'm not saying she was smoking, I don't know but if she was I didn't want DS in the car with her. Should have seen DS's face, priceless. We have talked to him, he is grounded and hopefully will abide by the rules. Never seen him so quiet.

Regards,
Dianne