Thanks hun, I've already told DH that there will be no more sleepovers at anyone's house and for now he will be going to school and straight back home again. I will also ban him on the computer. We have already talked to him about why we don't want him to hang around J and how important it is but obviously he doesn't understand or doesn't want to. I'm going to go around again soon as now it's past dinner and he normally rings me to let me know what's going on and what he's doing, it's just so not like him.

Regards,
Dianne