DS14 has really dissapointed me today . I found out he has lied. He slept over at his friends house last night, silly me should have rang the friends mum but DS has never given me reason before this to doubt him in any way. His mobile is not working at the moment so I can't contact him, he is still not back so around 4.00p.m I rang his friend and he told me DS didn't sleep there last night. I rang another friend asking if DS was with him and he told me no he slept at ........ house. This is where I got really upset because this boy, I'll call him J, is a boy who gets into a lot of trouble and is the boy who threw a rock through our window over the holidays. Already last year when I heard he was in trouble with the police we told DS he is not to go to J's house and definately not sleeping over there. I went to J's house to get DS and nobody is home, so I"m waiting for DS to get home. J lives not far from us so when DS goes for a ride or walk how do I know he's not at J's house. I'm pretty sure now that is where he has been going. I really want to talk to J's mum and tell her that if DS goes there to send him straight home but his mum is the type of person (I don't even know the word to use to describe her) but she is never home for a start and that includes during the night as well. The first time DS slept at J's house early last year he came home and told me J's mum didn't come home until 2.00a.m . This is all so new to me, it's so out of character for DS I don't even know how to handle it all. I suppose just needed to vent, thanks for reading.

Regards,
Dianne