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  1. #1
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    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
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    My confession...

    ...I hate all the crappy art my kids bring home from school. Normally I just leave it in the car until I'm certain they have forgotten about it, then I can chuck it. The really good stuff I will put up in the garage or the kitchen but I don't want it in the rest of the house.

    This week I cleared out the kids playroom and created a space for myself to study in, as well as a spare room in preparation for any visitors we might have. It is a lovely space, with photographs of my kids and pieces of art I love. Today DS2 came home from school with a piece of paper glued to itself in the middle, a sculpture of a house he said, for my study. I felt so bad but a) there's nowhere to put it and b) he hasn't put any effort in. It's not coloured, it doesn't look like a house, it's still got the words on it from the workbook it was made out of. I said it couldn't come in.

    So the kids decided to make me some art for my study so DS1 started by cutting out some bits of paper (not painted, not coloured) and stuck them together saying it was a flower. I said it cannot come into the study unless it is special, so he has painted it. I feel cruel, they are trying to do something nice for me but at the same time they are doing it half heartedly when I know they could do better.

    Am I being too tiger mom about this, that I only want art they have put time and effort into displayed in the house? Does anyone else long for the day no more random pieces of paper are brought home and expected to be displayed for all eternity?

  2. #2
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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    i have designated a wall in (DH's) shed to be the 'art' wall. my kids haven't even started kinder yet, but i know i don't want neverending 'art' pieces around so i am getting prepared.

  3. #3
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    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
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    that's what I tried to do, hence the garage wall and the kitchen being fair game. However I have now also had to designate a corner of my study for art and I know it's only a matter of time before they try to expand on that. I don't want to be mean, I love my kids, but I hate the drawings and cuttings that are not real art.

  4. #4
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    Nov 2004
    Chickens.
    4,989

    I re-use it for wrapping paper :blush:

  5. #5

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
    8,425

    Box construction. I HATE box construction!!

    Other people's recycling rubbish turned into art which cannot, under any circumstances, be thrown out

    Sadly, DD loves it and we have 443456656788 home made horse stables, dog kennels, Barbie cars, etc.

  6. #6
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    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
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    I try to throw my kids stuff int he recycle bin and DD1 goes and gets it out asking how it got in there It has to be really special for me to keep it. Often I say I am taking it to work and I will put it on my wall there for a few weeks and then bin it to make room for the next one.

  7. #7

    Jun 2010
    District Twelve
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    I try to throw my kids stuff int he recycle bin and DD1 goes and gets it out asking how it got in there It has to be really special for me to keep it. Often I say I am taking it to work and I will put it on my wall there for a few weeks and then bin it to make room for the next one.
    But then they go into your office and it's not there and they ask where it is

    Dd cannot remember to put her socks on five minutes after I ask her but she can remember a loo roll she covered in glitter and tinsel five years later. I am resigned to my house looking like an episode of Hoarders. God forbid someone lights a match

  8. #8
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    Sep 2007
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    I usually leave mine on the bench/table for a few days, then bin it when noone's around. I love seeing the new bits & pieces they bring home, there's way too much to keep it all. Some of it will go on the fridge, but if it falls, it lands in the bin

    Mum did the scrap book thing for us, & I started for DD1. But never actually got it together enough to fill it.

  9. #9
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    Dec 2006
    Smidgen-ville
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    Just last week i did my first photographs - of the cool stuff. But i also have a box in the study with a few great pieces in it. All, and i mean all box construction gets recycled into more box construction or the bin.

    I have boys, phew, and only two, so i don't have the same sized problem as some of you.

    As an adult, i couldn't care too hoots that mum used my art to start the fire. We were warm in winter. And i am really crap at all things arty crafty.

  10. #10

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    I really enjoy seeing DS2's drawings because he's actually quite talented but anything crafty from school gets binned pretty fast because he's often not into it and it shows.
    DS1's drawings are kept about in the interests of fairness but he lacks his bother's artistic flair and his drawings are kind of half-hearted. He draws because his brother does not because he loves to draw. His books/writing on the other hand..... they're awesome. I try to keep his stories.

  11. #11
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    Jan 2012
    Western Suburbs Melbourne
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    My confession...

    I have seen collages made by scanning their art then creating a large photo out of them all. One or two from each year per child until they grow out of it.
    At least then it's neat in a frame and still on display.

  12. #12
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    Nov 2011
    Radelaide
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    Traveller I know what you mean!
    I can tell the difference when they put the effort in or when they just throw it together. I've started buying a scrapbook album for them to store the random stuff in and the nice stuff goes on the fridge.

    Lol my kids have given up on box construction for a while as DS2 the 2yo loves to 'de-construct' what ever they bring home.

  13. #13
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    Aug 2006
    On the other side of this screen!!!
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    I have a cork board in the hallway next to the kitchen where selected work gets displayed. Other (nice) pieces are stored in a lidded box on top of her cupboard. These 2 actions exonerate me from all the other instant art recycling that I do. LOL. But she's a bit of an artist so it often looks really good.

  14. #14
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    Oct 2004
    In my Zombie proof fortress.
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    I feel the same way Trav (BTW there is a good article on The Hoopla about kids and artwork)

    I did start with using it for wrapping paper, but sadly most of it these days is too small and seems to have sticks or sand glued to it. So I have stopped. I now use a lot of it to start fires with The better stuff goes on the fridge for awhile and if it is quite good, a photo and posted to FB.

  15. #15
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    Jun 2003
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    Photograph it. Get yourself a digital photo frame and turn it on when they want to admire their works.

  16. #16
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    Nov 2009
    Scottish expat living in Geelong
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    Photograph it. Get yourself a digital photo frame and turn it on when they want to admire their works.
    This is a great idea, I might get one after Christmas. That should stop the artwork overtaking the house.

  17. #17
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    Nov 2010
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    Photograph it. Get yourself a digital photo frame and turn it on when they want to admire their works.

    Love This!! I was scrolling down the page to type it but then saw Rouge already had

  18. #18
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    Sep 2005
    In the middle of nowhere
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    DD1 is very into her art. She's quite creative which I love, but if I kept everything (anything), I'd drown.
    We have a rule in this house that both kids know.
    I can bin it if I photograph it. I'm happy to photograph what ever they want. They both have an album on the PC that they can find and look at. At the end of the year I use a photo place to make them a little soft cover book of the best. They think that's neat.

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