Possibily sit her down and tell her how disappointed you are in her behaviour, and tell her the way that you would lik eher to behave. limiting her MSN is a good idea, But maybe you can work on that a little bit more and let her know that if her behavious starts to improve she might be able to get more time, or if it goes the other way = let her know that if the behaviour continues you will be getting less time.
I became friends with a girl that was a b word when i was about 12... very little parent supervision.
She made other girls lives miserable in school because they werent as "cool as us."
Also, Because of her I had my first encounter with beer, ciggarettes and weed! At 12! THat;s insane!
Just remind her.... once high school hits they're not the big kids anymore.... they are the babies.
And older kids arent going to put up with b words!
U could just THREATEN to send your daughter to another high school? Say if this is the type of person she's going to become from hanging out with (L) then you need to act NOW and get her away from her before it gets worse.
Even if that means travelling an hour by herself, and not knowing anybody at the other school!
That's what i'd try. But..... i'm a mean, hard a$$. =P
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