Thanks Sas85 and Miss H

Sas85- Thanks so much for your advise hun, Glad to hear things with your brother have settled down and he is in in a better place now , i know how tough it is to see / watch someone you love do something and not being able to stop them
Things seem alot nicer at home with her i guess its only been two fays but she seems alot happier and herself again, its nice to have her back, but we do need to work on the friendship we had .. i really miss her