She is a kid! If your husband and teenage sons have a problem then they should stay away.

I would offer her some shorts for her comfort, but not for 'decency'.
Agreed whole heartedly with this post. She is 9 if the high cut stuff is too revealing then bring it up with the girls mother but by you offering her things you could also do her harm by puttong emphasis on her physical appearence and kids that age should not be worrying about how they look.

Perhaps these bottoms were the only ones that fit her - surely she is still too young to be trying to be "sexy". If the men in your house are embarrassed by the way she dresses for swimming in a private setting, I wonder how they would be coping with scantily clad women and topless tots in a public beach/pool.

its more your reaction to this that bothers me (only slightly though ) then anything else espcially when she is at an age where body image really starts to become an issue for some kids.



I do mean this in the nicest way possible honestly just relax , if its such a big deal for your family's morals then speak to the mother or don't have her around for a swim but please don't push stuff onto the child