thread: Simply shocked by the way DD's friend is dressed

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  1. #1

    Mar 2004
    Sparta
    12,662

    She's just a child - maybe she doesn't know the swimmers are inappropriate, maybe they're all she owns. At the moment she feels comfortable and happy in your home why would you do something that takes that from her?
    Maybe what you consider inappropriate isn't what her family considers inappropriate. My SIL is South American. Her swimmers raise eyebrows every time we step onto the beach. I wear a burqini so my swimmers raise eyebrows too for a different reason. Both of us dress as we consider appropriate and IMO other people just need to deal with it.

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    Jun 2009
    vic
    2,886

    Don't know but when I was that age we used to go outside in our undies (which no doubt became see through) and play in friends sprinklers when we were there. Would be different if it was going shopping attire.